The words we choose to use.

June 19, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Confrontation, Emotions, Father, Mother, Parenting, Positive Behaviour

How we speak to our children is long-lasting. Read here for some thoughts on how to manage ourselves in using effective communication with children.

Feeling overwhelmed? It can happen to our children.

June 16, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Family, Learning, Parenting, Self Esteem, teacher, Worry

When a child feels overwhelmed by too much information, they simply shut down as a defence. Children can become just as overwhelmed as adults. Read here on some strategies to help avoid anxiety in your children.

Personality: We need to nurture its development

June 04, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Parenting, Personality

Do you see many changes in the personalities in your own children over the years? Here are some considerations in different ways to nurture your child’s individual personality.

How to deal with trauma such as the recent school shooting in the USA.

June 03, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Finding Help, Parenting, Trauma

We are confronted by what recently happened in Texas with the mass killing of young children in a school. It is almost impossible to get our heads around this atrocity and as parents, we shudder with the reminder that a parent’s grief for their lost child would be immeasurable. Here's some pointers for parents to help your children understand tragedies like this.

Enjoy the present - it’s here for you now to enjoy →

May 27, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Emotions, Happiness, Laughter, Memories, Parenting, Positive Behaviour

Happiness can be found in all of the smaller moments in life. You just have to stop for a moment and enjoy the present.

A child needs to grow a strong belief in themselves

May 25, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Self Esteem

Our children need to be steadily building a strong belief in themselves. They will put themselves forward and receive some knockdowns but climbing the ladder of being strongly connected to the world will come with mounting strong self-belief.

Always keep the bright side of situations as your focus

May 24, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Family, Happiness, Laughter, Parenting, Worry

Parenting come with a sense of being cautious and protecting your child. Be less afraid of taking a risk and letting in some positive thoughts.

Being credible is such an important part in parenting

May 18, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Family, Father, Mother, Positive Behaviour, Parenting, Raising Boys, Raising girls, Values

By nature of being a parent you are invited to present such fine qualities as credibility and trust to your child. Never underestimate that such an opportunity is also all about developing yourself as a fully rounded, emotionally intelligent person. Like it or not parenting forces us to grow up!

Teach our children to be courteous →

May 17, 2022 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Experiences, Father, Mother, Parenting, Positive Behaviour

There is a silent, steady power present in being courteous. You are stronger by nature of your courteous style. By treating someone with dignity no matter how different your thoughts are, there is little with which to argue. After all, they see how you accept them as legitimate. You accept their right to have a voice, which gives you a voice.

The value you have to your child

May 14, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Emotions, Happiness, Mother, Parenting, Values, Father

We appreciate that we are important and that we hold great responsibility and balance of power in taking care of our child. I wonder how often we think about the value we give to our child.

Dr Seuss said “To the world you may be one person; but to one person you may be the world.”

Are you planning everything around your children?

May 11, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Family, Father, Parenting, Mother

Downtime with the family is a vital time to replenish the family spirit, refresh relationships and simply enjoy each other’s company.

Being a mum - something to think about

May 10, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Family, Happiness, Independence, Mother, Memories

I have learnt some precious realities in watching mums raise a family, live with it and through it, suffer all the hardships, carry the weak moments and rise above the troubled spots. Now that’s being a mum!

What will your child remember about you?

May 06, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Emotions, Experiences, Family, Father, Mother

What do our children really think about us? Are they aware of all our efforts? Do they remember the little details and the extra efforts we make over the years? What is their level of appreciation of us the parents?

The delight and significance of reading to your child.

April 20, 2022 by Gail Smith in Parenting, Reading, School Holidays, Children

There are significant advantages of reading to your children, in addition to the special family time.

Give your child occasions to make choices

April 18, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Decision Making

Children need occasions to make choices and grow to understand that in making choices we live with the consequences. Decision making can be taught as much as learnt on the run. For our children, teaching them that making their own decisions comes with the joy of owning the outcome and also learning from the outcome.

Let’s teach our children to enjoy what they have and not seek out more

April 13, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Family, Father, Mother, Memories, Parenting

No easy task for parents who want to teach their children how to enjoy what they have rather than seeking out the next improved item. Read here for some examples of how to teach children to value what they have.

A laugh a day can keep the blues at bay.

April 11, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Happiness, Laughter, Memories, Parenting, Mother, Father

In all my time as a teacher and Principal, I always felt that classrooms filled with humour were happier and more enlivened spaces in which children could work and learn. ‘ Always find a reason to laugh. It may not add years to your life but will surely add life to your years.’ Anon.

Managing children’s behaviour.

April 08, 2022 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Father, Mother, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Raising Boys, Raising girls

The household should have clear rules and be a place where the child can see you, the parent, living by the standards you set for them. Here are some tips to help manage children’s behaviour at home.

Choose your battles

April 06, 2022 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Parenting

Here are a few thoughts on why choosing your battles is important in maintaining a strong and happy relationship with your child:

Keeping track of the media for children

March 30, 2022 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Parenting, Media

There is so much news at the moment about the distressing situation in Ukraine, the ongoing battle with Covid and other local issues. The recent floods were very disturbing in Australia. It doesn’t take long for children to pick up that there is much anxiety and stress in our world.