What do we as parents expect from our children?

May 15, 2024 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, Family, Independence, Responsibility, Resilience

Becoming a parent means transitioning into a consultant role for your child as they grow and become more responsible for their own lives. Your steady support and guidance will shape their future significantly. Gail Smith shares some essential considerations for parents as we navigate the challenges that concern us or cause discontent.

Let’s reflect on how we are going in our parenting →

May 15, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Communication, Children, Confidence, Education, Emotions, Experiences, Family, Independence, Listening, Parenting, relationship, Well being, Values

Parenting is like a river, always moving and changing with our children's needs. As they grow, we should grow too. Take a moment now and then to see how you're doing as a parent. Gail Smiths shares some great ideas to help you build an even better bond with your child.

We need to regulate our angry responses around children

May 08, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Emotions, Gratitude, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Problem Solving

It's important for parents to stay calm and not get too angry too quickly. This helps in handling issues at home effectively. When parents get angry, children might not understand why and it can harm the parent-child relationship. It's best to manage anger by taking a break before addressing the problem, as this shows emotional control and helps maintain a positive relationship with your child.

Valuable resources for mastering effective communication with your child →

April 30, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Education, Emotions, Family, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, relationship, Support, Listening, active listening

In the hustle of a busy day, we might find ourselves talking quickly and sharply to our children. This can be frustrating for both parents and kids, as everyone wants to be heard and understood. It's normal to feel irritated when we don't get a response or feel like no one is listening. Gail Smith has some great tips to help us support our children and improve our conversations. Learning these skills can make a huge difference in how we communicate.

Using 'I' statements to get your message across to your child →

April 30, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Education, Emotions, Family, Learning, relationship, Well being

"I" statements are about expressing your needs and feelings directly, fostering genuine communication. They help your child understand your perspective better, whether you're addressing a concern or praising their actions. Together with Gail Smith, let’s explore the impact of "I" statements in family communication.

Beware the roadblocks to good communication with your child

April 17, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Counselling Tips, Education, Emotions, Mental Support, Mindfulness, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Well being

Have you ever noticed that sometimes our kids seem to tune us out or react in unexpected ways? It might be because we unintentionally create barriers to good communication with them. Discover with Gail Smith some common roadblocks we might unknowingly set up, thinking we're doing what's best for them.

Learning to be tolerant around your child →

February 07, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Education, Family, Learning, Parenting, Personality, Positive Behaviour, school, Self Esteem, Values

Gail Smith sheds light on the power of tolerance in shaping how our children perceive and treat us, as well as others. The Primary Years.

Help your child have a great start to the school year →

January 31, 2024 by Gail Smith in Activity, Children, Communication, education, Happiness, Independence, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, school, Seperation, Starting School, Starting Term

Every child will encounter a mix of excitement and anxiety at the start of a new school year. Gail Smith shares tips on actions you can take to ease the pressure for your child and let them know you are navigating this journey together.

Think about having one-on-one time with your children →

January 17, 2024 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Education, Family, Learning, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, relationship, Self Esteem

Dive into profound insights with Gail Smith, exploring the meaningful value of dedicating one-on-one time with each of your children.

Listening to your children is incredibly important for several reasons →

January 10, 2024 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, education, Emotions, Family, Parenting, Self Esteem

Talk less, listen more next time when you are having a conversation with your children. Consider the following reasons why active listening is so important by Gail Smith.

The value of spending time and having fun with your child →

January 03, 2024 by Gail Smith in Activity, Children, Communication, Experiences, Family, Laughter, Memories, Positive Behaviour, Values

With no expectation placed on you other than enjoying each other’s company, having fun with your child is all about finding quality time that is a such a precious and valuable way of building lasting and healthy relationships.

Speaking well to children

January 03, 2024 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, education, Family, Learning, Parenting, Positive Behaviour, Self Esteem

What we say and how we say it has such an impact on our child. Consider the following thoughts about the positive impact speaking well has on your child.

Being authentic and honest with your child is the best way forward

October 10, 2023 by Gail Smith in Appreciation, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Emotions, Learning, Parenting, Raising Boys, Raising girls

Here are six reasons and examples of what honesty and authenticity look like in parenting.

Your child needs your patience as they progress through school

October 03, 2023 by Gail Smith in Achievement, Behaviour, Children, Communication, Education, Emotions, Experiences, Independence, Learning, Parenting, Positive Behaviour

Patience is a vital virtue for parents with children in school, this blog states the reasons why.

What parents need to think about when our children go to school

September 25, 2023 by Gail Smith in Achievement, Children, Communication, Education, Experiences, Independence, Learning, Parenting

This blog contains several important considerations that you should keep in mind to support your child's education and overall wellbeing.

Managing our anger around our children

September 22, 2023 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Emotions, Parenting, Positive Behaviour

Here are some positive reasons why managing anger well benefits relationships with your child.

What really makes a great school

September 13, 2023 by Gail Smith in Children, Decision Making, Education, Emotions, Independence, Learning, Memories, Parenting, Starting School, teacher

We all want the best for our child's education. Here are some suggestions on what makes a great school.

The Life giving Power of Politeness: Why Teaching Good Manners Boosts Your Child's Education!

September 06, 2023 by Gail Smith in Behaviour, Children, Communication, Emotions, Happiness, Parenting, Personality, Positive Behaviour, Values

Read about how politeness and manners are so important to implement in your child's upbringing.

Navigating the Emotional Roller coaster: Supporting Parents with Children at School

August 08, 2023 by Gail Smith in Children, Communication, education, Emotions, Experiences, Friendship, Happiness, Learning, Parenting, Problem Solving, school, Stress

For some children, school can be challenging on many different levels. This blog aims to provide emotional support and practical strategies for parents to navigate the ups and downs of their children's school lives.

Nurturing Emotional Intelligence in Children: Emphasising Emotional Care

August 01, 2023 by Gail Smith in Appreciation, Children, Communication, Emotions, Happiness, Parenting, Positive Behaviour

Parenting tips on how to emotionally care for and support your child to help nurture their emotional intelligence.