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Never Underestimate How Important You Are To Your Child At Any Age

It’s easy to forget the value that our children place on us.

'If you are emotionally and physically present for your child, you are a parent with impact'                                               

   -Gail J Smith

How easy it is to forget the value that our children place on us. At times we feel their trust and love have diminished but it actually hibernates for a while as they grow through different stages. Our children are on a mission from childbirth to be independent and that journey can often challenge their relationship with us. However, their great desire is ultimately to take us with them into adulthood. The thoughts below are an excellent reminder of how valuable we are to our children.

  • Parents are the original Google. They answer endless questions about the world, from why the sky is blue to why you can't have ice cream for breakfast (even though they secretly wish they could too).

  • No matter how many times you "decorate" the walls with crayons or bring home a pet frog, parents love you anyway. They're the ultimate cheerleaders, always in your corner.

  • Parents show you how to be an adult. From tying your shoes to filing taxes, they model the art of surviving and thriving in the grown-up world. Plus, they’re living proof that yes, you can survive without a nap.

  • Parents are like a safety net in a circus act. When life gets wobbly, they're there to catch you, dust you off, and send you back into the ring, with a little more wisdom each time.

  • Whether it's a skinned knee or a broken heart, parents are the go-to fixers. They're like emotional band-aids, always ready to make the hurt feel a little less painful with a hug or a cookie.

  • Parents teach you the difference between right and wrong, like why it's not okay to swipe your sibling's dessert (even if they weren't eating it fast enough).

  • From cooking a meal to changing a tyre, parents equip you with the skills you need to navigate life. They're the original DIY experts, minus the YouTube tutorials.

  • Parents can be surprisingly fun. They tell the best (or worst) jokes, make silly faces, and sometimes dance in the kitchen like no one is watching, even when everyone is.

Every now and again, when you feel the fatigue of parenting or think that you are making no difference, keep in mind that parenting is a long-haul process. It is not so much geared to short-term success, but it is more about the ongoing support and unconditional love you show them.

If you are emotionally and physically present for your child, you are a parent with impact.

Gail J Smith

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Happy Mother’s Day

We all doubt ourselves as mothers. Are we good enough? Here are ten ways a mother shows love for her children. You are a fantastic mum.

Let’s think about how you, as the mum, are so valuable to your child. Here are ten ways that you show so much love.

  • Unconditional Love: Mothers show unwavering love and support, teaching their children the true meaning of unconditional love. We love them no matter what!

  • Incredible Multi-tasking Skills: From juggling schedules to managing household chores, mothers are masters of multitasking, keeping everything running smoothly.

  • Nurturing Nature: Mothers have a natural ability to nurture and care for their children, providing comfort, guidance, and encouragement every step of the way.

  • Endless Patience: Despite the chaos of daily life, mothers exhibit remarkable patience, handling tantrums, setbacks, and challenges with grace and understanding.

  • Superhuman Strength: Whether it's carrying a child for nine months or lifting spirits during tough times, mothers showcase incredible strength, both physically and emotionally.

  • Role Model Extraordinaire: Mothers serve as powerful role models, inspiring their children to dream big, work hard, and never give up on their goals.

  • Master Problem Solver: From fixing broken toys to solving complex problems, mothers have a knack for finding creative solutions to any challenge that comes their way.

  • Unparalleled Sacrifice: Mothers make countless sacrifices for their children, often putting their own needs aside to ensure the happiness and well-being of their family.

  • Infinite Kindness: With hearts full of kindness and compassion, mothers spread love and kindness wherever they go, making the world a better place for everyone around them.

  • Eternal Bond: The bond between a mother and child is truly special and unbreakable, filled with moments of joy, laughter, and endless memories to cherish forever.

‘A mother’s love perceives no impossibilities.’

                                      -Cornelia Paddock

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