A Few wise thoughts about getting ready for Christmas
The festive season can sometimes feel overwhelming, with endless to-do lists and expectations piling up. This year, why not focus on what truly matters? Spending quality time together as a family. Use this season of change as an opportunity to reconnect and remind yourselves of the joy and love that make family the heart of this special time.
Now that school is finished and the family can concentrate on Christmas and holidays, consider making life as simple and uncomplicated as possible. Enjoy the change as a family unit and begin to remember why family is the key point about this season.
Consider:
Focus on Presence, Not Presents: Children will remember the moments you spend together, not the price tags. Make time for laughter, games and hugs
Keep It Calm and Simple: Don’t stress about creating the “perfect Christmas.” Kids love the small things—hot chocolate, movies, or building a snowman. They love the repetition of Christmas.
Share the Spirit of Giving: Involve children in small acts of kindness— donating a toy, baking for neighbours, or making handmade cards. It’s a gift for their hearts too.
Create Special Traditions: Whether it’s matching pyjamas, bedtime stories by
the tree, or a festive family walk, traditions make Christmas magical and memorable.
Let Kids Be Kids: Allow space for excitement, silliness, and mess. The joy of Christmas is in their smiles and giggles—so join in!
Try to be more relaxed and strengthen friendships and relationships. It is all good for the soul.
“Have yourself a very merry Christmas with all the family.”
Worthwhile thoughts to give our children as we approach Christmas.
It’s essential and memory-making to create family traditions at Christmas and focus on what matters.
Let’s simplify Christmas and bring home to our children some important reminders about the goodwill and cheer that Christmas should bring.
Focus on Presence Over Presents: Remind yourself that the joy of the holiday season comes from being together, creating memories, and spending quality time with family. Emphasize the value of experiences and meaningful moments over material gifts. Talk about those wonderful experiences that make you family.
Teach Gratitude and Generosity: Encourage your children to appreciate what they have and to express gratitude. Use this time to instil the importance of giving, kindness, and generosity by involving them in charitable activities or teaching them to create handmade gifts for loved ones. Now is a time to say thank you to all those who have helped you throughout the year. It is time also to put our bad feelings behind us.
Manage Expectations: Help your children manage expectations about gifts and festivities. Explain that while gifts are a part of the celebration, the true spirit of Christmas lies in love, togetherness, and spreading joy, not solely in the number or value of presents received. Introduce simple gift ideas that they can make. Perhaps writing cards etc.
Create Traditions and Rituals: Consider establishing family traditions that reflect the values you want to instil. Whether decorating the tree together, baking cookies, or volunteering as a family, these rituals create lasting memories and reinforce the spirit of Christmas beyond material aspects. Every family can create their own rituals, and the children feel secure around them.
Emphasize Balance and Relaxation: Amidst the hustle and bustle, prioritize balance and relaxation. Ensure that the holiday season doesn't become overwhelming for your children. Encourage them to take breaks, engage in self-care activities, and find joy in the simple pleasures of the season. Let them plan holidays with you, and sometimes this may simply mean quiet times together.
Above all, embrace your Christmas with warmth, friendship and family connections.