FEEL SAFE AND BE SAFE IS GOOD MENTAL HEALTH FOR YOUR CHILD

Keeping your child feeling safe can happen through sound basic habits.

Consider:

• Be their safe place

Let your child know they can talk to you about anything—no judgement, no overreaction. Just calm, caring presence. This also means keeping the volume of your voice down.

• Help them name their feelings

Use gentle words to label emotions: “You look frustrated” or “Are you feeling nervous?” Naming feelings helps kids manage them better. It also takes the sting out of the words.

• Create calming routines

Predictable routines give kids a sense of control and comfort, especially during transitions like bedtime or coming home from school. Talk about the routines and have them visual around the house.

• Stay calm yourself

Your mood sets the tone at home. When you stay grounded, you help your child feel steady, too. A child’s radar goes up quickly when they detect frustration from you. After that they shutdown.

• Focus on connection, not just correction

When your child makes a mistake, connect first—then guide. Try “Help me understand what happened,” instead of punishment right away. If upset create space before dealing with the issue. This helps you calm down.

• Celebrate little wins

  Praise effort, kindness, courage, things that build inner strength. It tells your child, you are more than just your results. The effort is what we are rewarding.

• Model self-care

Show them what it looks like to rest, breathe, talk things out, and ask for help. Kids copy what they see. A calm parent tells their child they are approachable.

These small choices add up. Every time your child feels emotionally safe with you, their confidence and resilience grow.